The Stillness After the Dance

The house is quiet in that way it only gets late in the afternoon, when the day is starting to soften and fold in on itself. The kids’ shoes are kicked off by the door, and a half-finished puzzle sits on the floor, waiting. For no reason at all, I found myself wanting to watch an old movie, something familiar.

There he was, on the screen. Young, impossibly so, with that walk that was more like a glide. It’s funny how some people become part of the furniture of our lives, isn't it? For me, one of those people is John Travolta. Whether it’s the earnest charm of Danny Zuko or the cool, quiet danger of Vincent Vega, he’s just… always been there. A fixture in the background of our own stories.

But watching him today, it wasn’t the dance moves or the one-liners that I was thinking about. My mind drifted to the man himself, the life lived between those iconic roles. We see the bright, brilliant flashes of a career that has reached incredible heights. We see the joy, the swagger, the characters that feel like old friends. But we have also borne witness, from a distance, to the unimaginable weight of his sorrow.

I thought about the profound stillness that must have followed the loss of his son, Jett. And then, years later, the quiet grace with which he navigated the passing of his wife, Kelly Preston. It’s a level of grief that feels too heavy to hold, let alone to carry in the public eye. And yet, he continues to show up. He shares gentle photos of his children, a quiet birthday memory, a moment of dance. It’s not a performance of strength, but something softer and more real: a testament to the human heart’s capacity to keep beating, to keep loving, even after it’s been broken.

It makes me think about the stories we all carry, the ones that don’t make it to a movie screen. The resilience we find not in grand gestures, but in the small, tender acts of showing up for another day. In making breakfast. In remembering to be kind. In finding a reason, however small, to dance again, even if it’s just in the kitchen while the tea steeps.

His story isn’t just about fame. It’s a quiet lesson in the unbreakable nature of spirit, a reminder that joy and grief can live side by side, and that there is a soft, incredible strength in just… enduring. 🧸

I wonder, which of his many roles has stayed with you the most, and why?
The Stillness After the Dance

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